Sunday, June 3, 2007

Self Improvement

"Self Esteem Improvement" By Achi Amaechi

The 80/20 rule states that 20% of our activities account for 80% of our result. 20% of our time shared accounts for 80% of our relationship strengthened. 20% of our research account for 80% of the information gathered. We need to discover the 20% of our activities that produces the most favorable result in our life - the 20% that accounts for our well being. One of them is the 20% we spend on Self Esteem improvement.

There are a number of ways to improve Self Esteem. All ways require your patience, time, perseverance, autosuggestion and of course the realization that Self Esteem improvement is a process and just like success not a destination. Your Self Esteem accounts for approximately 70% of the level of success and happiness you would achieve. It’s so important; it determines how we react to the different events that occur in life. For all our reactions are always based on who and what we believe we are – in other words, on how our Self Esteem appears to us.

High Self Esteem for instance will make you react positively to many events that occur in your life which means we can be free from debilitating emotions and disturbing thoughts therefore we have complete control over what we can do to handle every situation that arises in our lives in the best possible way.

Ø Be kind to yourself. If something goes well, reward yourself. If it goes badly. Learn from your mistakes.

Ø Write a list on things you are good at – and read it – many times over and over again. Autosuggestion is self suggestion, it is the only known way we can induce our subconscious. Your attitude comes from the subconscious. So if you can control it by making repeated positive words into them, then you’ve got a winner.

Ø Train yourself to give compliments to others and when you receive one, say “thank you”
That’s it on Self Esteem Improvement. For a complete insider secret to building and increasing your Self Esteem, visit http://achieveall.blogspot.com/

Achi will painstakingly help you in your quest to increase your self-worth, self confidence and your self esteem, find more inspiring articles at his site, http://achieveall.blogspot.com/

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